Ready to date your sweetheart, BUT! Want to make it great?
There are some MAJOR dating “No-No’s” that you just might not find anywhere else. Well, let me dig in and just quickly share a list of them. This list is simple, sweet, and quick. Just be sure to make your date with your mate great by saying “NO” to….
TV – Yep! A date is a time to CONNECT. So, disconnect the TV and connect with your sweetie.
Cell phone calls – Yep! AND…your Facebook. AND…Twitter. Turn it off. Tune in to your darling.
Email – Obviously! No place for email on a “date” with your darling!
Internet – In case you are wondering, turn OFF the computer. It is your biggest hindrance to really connecting. So, turn off the internet and get in the real world for real romance!
Bickering – If needed, duct tape your mouth. A date is not the time or place to squabble. Let it go. Have a great time!
Complaining – Don’t put the duct tape up before this one. Nothing frustrates your sweetie more than feeling like they are not pleasing you. It may seem that you are only complaining about the traffic or the service at the restaurant, but watch out for complaining. Instead, tune into your sweetheart and enjoy the moment.
Criticizing – I know that none of you do this one. 🙂 Especially not with your sweetheart. Just a note. Want to see “change” in your spouse, praise their strengths. Praise their accomplishments. Praise their successes. Give ZERO tolerance for allowing yourself to be critical.
Forgetting Special Dates – NEVER, EVER forget the special dates–anniversary, birthdays, appointments, and even dates for their hobbies. Grab a good planner or add dates to your cell phone. Always remember special dates.
Saying, “No Chocolate for you dear!” – Diets go on the back-burner on a date. ENJOY that time together!
Family weigh-in – DUH!
No Richard Gear or Jennifer Anniston flicks—or Arnold Schwarzenneggar PLEASE! – Obviously this is a bomb for romance.
No Bass Fishing—or golfing! – I promise your woman is really not counting days for this one!
No Scrapbooking! – Hello! The guys MIGHT could think of one million other things to do on a date.
No passing gas! Enough said.
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